Networking Schmooze
January is a month
for self-improvement like no other, with many people "networking" to
get a new job. One business school has gone as far as appointing a
"professor of networking", but do you still need to schmooze to get
ahead?
Many people will
have observed a good networker in action.
Pausing between
mouthfuls of prawn vol-au-vents to gaze Peregrine Falcon-like around a busy
room, they pick their prey with aplomb.
Swerving in between
those who lack the power to enhance their career, the networker closes on the
target and makes conversation that feels warm and genuine despite - in reality
- being dominated by coming opportunities in "business process
outsourcing".
But for less
ruthless folk, networking can all be a bit harrowing. Some don't feel
comfortable "working a room" with guests that they have nothing in
common with.
Others struggle
with the notion of contrived conversation where both parties know that the
other person is after something - be it insider knowledge, a contact or work.
For these people
LinkedIn and Twitter may have come as a bit of a blessing, allowing an
altogether less socially taxing form of networking, at a time when a difficult
jobs market makes pursuing every opportunity more important than ever.
But in the era of
digital buttonholing, is traditional schmoozing still important? And can it be
taught?
The appointment of
Julia Hobsbawm as the "world's first visiting professor in
networking" at London's Cass Business School might suggest so. Hobsbawm
believes networking should be a core skill, like driving or computer literacy.
"In a time of
recession, people need their soft skills honed every bit as sharp as their hard
skills. Networking is poised to become the most valuable soft skill on a
CV," Hobsbawm says.
So do the hours we
spend on social media sites like Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn on a daily
basis count towards our networking quota?
"Face-to-face
contact is much more important in the 'Facebook age' because technology can
create isolation despite its many benefits," argues Hobsbawm.
"Trust is the
biggest single asset a person can have and face-to-face contact provides this
better than any other form of engagement. But everyone needs to be connected on
social media too. The more blended your information sources, the better."
Networking, as
"the action or process of making use of people for the exchange of
information or for professional or other advantage", first came into
common parlance in the 1970s, according to the Oxford English Dictionary.
Before social media
was born, networking was something you only did face-to-face at the local pub,
a chief executive's mahogany office or in between stuffing your face with
smoked salmon blinis in a soulless conference room.
Young people might
now be totally au fait with social networking sites, but are not aware of all
the techniques of more traditional networking.
Apprentice winner
Tim Campbell, who was recently awarded an MBE for his services to enterprise
culture, believes this is because networking is not presented in a positive
light let alone as a skill that should be learnt.
"Networking is
definitely a skill that can be learnt but it is seen as a bit of a dirty word.
Americans see it as an essential part of business thanks to sororities and
fraternities at universities where life-long links are made. That's an alien
concept for most people that come out of our education system."
Campbell admits
networking is hard work if done the right way because it involves keeping
connections "warm".
"It's a
delicate balance between endeavour and connections. I'm all for networking for
getting a job whether that's mentioning a name or through a friend of a
friend."
Many might be
dismissive of the idea that you occasionally need to network to get work,
believing it is disingenuous and unnecessary in a meritocratic job market. But
the defenders of networking argue that in societies where some people are able
to take advantage of family contacts or other social advantages, networking is
a conscious way to level the playing field.
Campbell argues not
everyone has the same "social capital" when it comes to knowing the
right people.
"This
imbalance doesn't mean networking is a bad thing," adds Campbell. "We
just have to make sure people have more access to networks. Social mobility
relies on good networks."
Not all networking
is good. You need to do it well, says Cliff Oswick, professor in organisation
theory at Cass Business School.
Oswick believes
networking often doesn't get positive results because it is carried out in an
insincere, superficial and meaningless way with people who share no
similarities whatsoever.
Of course, to the critics
of networking that is exactly what it is. So what should we be doing instead?
"Authenticity
is vital," says Oswick. "Ensure you are connecting with people you
want to connect with rather than accumulating a long list of contacts that you
have nothing in common with."
It's rather in the
same vein that some people hoover up as many acquaintances as they possibly can
on social networking sites in order to appear popular.
So what networking
skills can be taught?
Oswick thinks
networking skills can be enhanced by theorising and adopting practices in a
similar way that people are taught how to develop leadership qualities.
Davide Nicolini,
professor of organisation studies at Warwick Business School, opts for a slightly
different method.
"We look at
networks as a way of making your business work at its best rather than
techniques to make lots of friends. Although both approaches go together.
"Networking is
the name of the game in surviving in most companies. It is an old practice that
has been rejuvenated by the introduction of electronic media and has always
been important in England hence the notion of an old boys' club in the first
place."
But comedian Arthur
Smith doesn't rate the power of networking, arguing that using your talent is
the most important factor for success.
"Networking is for people who like having their picture taken, [and] going to parties. I can't really be bothered. Talent always prevails in the long run."
Artical From BBC News Magazine By Sophie Robehmed: (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16415584)
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